Experiencing betrayal is an incredibly painful emotion, especially when it comes from someone you trust within your own family. Josie was devastated when her son deceived her. In a surprising twist of events, the dedicated mother made the selfless decision to pass on her house to her son and his young wife, allowing them to create a cozy home and begin their own family. However, fate had a different plan in store for Josie, one that she could never have anticipated. She reached out to us to share her story and seek guidance.
I live in a spacious 3-bedroom house, enjoying the privacy of living on my own. My son, who recently got married, insisted that the house was the ideal place for them to start their family. As a result, I decided to give it to them and moved in with my sister, who is a widow. Yesterday, my son dropped a bombshell on me — his mother-in-law is moving in with them. I told them, «Leaving my home was not for the purpose of her living with you.» My daughter-in-law openly admitted, «We were not completely honest about our plans to start a family immediately. We’re not prepared yet; we’re still too young. She mentioned, «However, my mom is by herself. We have a spacious house now, so she will come live with us.» I was really angry and made it clear that I did not agree to this arrangement. I gently reminded her that, technically, the house still belongs to me. My son then stated, «My MIL is much more in need of us than you are. She’s become a part of my family now and it’s my responsibility to look after her.» I feel devastated and deceived. What should I do now?