{"id":11962,"date":"2024-06-25T01:06:32","date_gmt":"2024-06-25T01:06:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/?p=11962"},"modified":"2024-06-25T01:06:32","modified_gmt":"2024-06-25T01:06:32","slug":"they-had-been-trying-to-have-a-child-for-six-years-but-when-the-woman-got-pregnant-the-man-ran-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/?p=11962","title":{"rendered":"They Had Been Trying to Have a Child for Six Years, but When the Woman Got Pregnant, the Man Ran Away."},"content":{"rendered":"

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\nThe woman struggled to conceive for six years before finally getting pregnant. She decided to notify her partner on his 30th birthday since she was thrilled with the news. But she was taken aback by his unexpected remark.<\/p>\n

The 26-year-old woman and her partner had been together for ten years and spoke about creating a family. After she posted her experience on Reddit, the internet community scolded her spouse and expressed their concerns in the comments section. She updated Redditors on her experience with him one month later.
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\nThe Original Poster (OP) had been feeling poorly for a few days, but her tight work schedule stopped her from going to the doctor. When she arrived for her doctor\u2019s visit on her boyfriend\u2019s birthday morning, she couldn\u2019t help but think about his party. After assessing her vital signs and asking some questions, the doctor revealed that she was pregnant.<\/p>\n

The Original Poster (OP) had been feeling poorly for a few days, but her tight work schedule stopped her from going to the doctor. When she arrived for her doctor\u2019s visit on her boyfriend\u2019s birthday morning, she couldn\u2019t help but think about his party. After assessing her vital signs and asking some questions, the doctor revealed that she was pregnant.
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\nShe kept the news to herself until she came home, thinking it would make the ideal surprise for her spouse, but she was delighted to hear it after years of trying. But when she got back, her lover was deep in conversation with one of her friends. She pulled him aside to tell him the news, wanting some privacy, but he didn\u2019t listen.<\/p>\n

She couldn\u2019t contain her joy and told everyone she was pregnant, even though he asked her to wait. She was astonished by his violent response, in which he declared it was supposed to be about him and accused her of spoiling his day.
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\nThe user posted on Reddit about how her partner broke up with her and then admitted it ten days later when he came back, claiming another lady. Remarkably, he made her an offer of anything to get her to abort their child, but she turned him down. He offered her two weeks to move to a new residence.<\/p>\n

According to the person, her spouse was not interested in getting married since, in his words, \u201cmarriage was something people needed to prove their love.\u201d She claimed he prevented her from attending college because it was many hours away from their home.
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\nShe went on to say that the experience taught her to stand up for herself rather than being a \u201cdoormat\u201d for others to walk on, but many others around her found this insight disturbing. \u201cSome people have said that I\u2019ve changed from the \u201cbeautiful innocent\u201d person they knew before this whole thing happened,\u201d the speaker added.
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\nMost Redditors sympathized with OP and thought her partner was to fault. They believed he didn\u2019t need to act as though he desired a kid with her.c<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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