{"id":13436,"date":"2024-09-13T00:34:09","date_gmt":"2024-09-13T00:34:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/?p=13436"},"modified":"2024-09-13T00:34:09","modified_gmt":"2024-09-13T00:34:09","slug":"they-tore-mom-down-when-writing-her-obituary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/?p=13436","title":{"rendered":"They Tore Mom Down When Writing Her Obituary"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4085-300x150.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-13437\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4085-300x150.png 300w, https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4085.png 533w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><br \/>\nWhen a loved one passes away, it is common for family members to take on the responsibility of writing an obituary. These pieces are typically emotional and heartfelt, reflecting the affection they felt for the deceased. However, not all families aim for a highly complimentary obituary; some may choose to be bluntly honest about their loved one\u2019s life.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4086-300x197.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"197\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-13438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4086-300x197.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4086-1024x674.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4086-768x505.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4086.jpeg 1290w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><br \/>\nObituaries are usually shared publicly, either through newspapers or online platforms, meaning they can reach a wide audience, from a few people to potentially hundreds. One notable obituary sheds light on family discord. Kathleen Dehmlow\u2019s two adult children composed an obituary for their mother and shared it with their entire community. At first glance, it resembles a standard tribute, but as you read further, it becomes clear there were unresolved family issues. The ending is particularly shocking, though oddly humorous.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4087-300x261.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"261\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-13439\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4087-300x261.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_4087.jpeg 696w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><br \/>\nThe Redwood Falls Gazette published the obituary, but it was removed after receiving significant backlash. A family member confirmed the obituary\u2019s accuracy, though it was said to lack a \u201csignificant amount of omitted information.\u201d Dwight, a family member who was interviewed, shared a different perspective, stating that Kathleen had made a mistake sixty years ago but had shown remorse, reminding us that everyone makes mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>Despite this, the person who wrote the obituary chose to leave on a bitter note, likely causing discomfort for many readers. Some even questioned whether the obituary should have been published at all. The newspaper\u2019s CEO responded by confirming there was no legal reason to prevent its publication, noting that their partners maintain strict editorial standards and took the concerns seriously by reviewing the piece carefully.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you\u2019re likely curious about the content of this unusual obituary. Don\u2019t worry\u2014we\u2019ve got it ready for you to read.<\/p>\n<p>Feel free to share this with your loved ones!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a loved one passes away, it is common for family members to take on the responsibility of writing an obituary. 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