{"id":14254,"date":"2024-11-03T00:01:33","date_gmt":"2024-11-03T00:01:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/?p=14254"},"modified":"2024-11-03T00:01:33","modified_gmt":"2024-11-03T00:01:33","slug":"my-best-friend-tried-to-kiss-my-fiance-should-i-confront-her-or-walk-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/?p=14254","title":{"rendered":"My Best Friend Tried to Kiss My Fianc\u00e9\u2014Should I Confront Her or Walk Away?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\nI\u2019m struggling with a situation that\u2019s tearing me up inside, and I don\u2019t know where to turn. My best friend \u201cRachel\u201d and I have been inseparable for 20 years\u2014we\u2019ve shared everything, from high school dramas to family crises and now the excitement of planning my wedding. She\u2019s more like a sister than a friend, and I trusted her completely. My fianc\u00e9 \u201cTom\u201d and I have been together for three years, and he\u2019s been nothing but respectful and supportive of my friendship with Rachel.<\/p>\n

A few weeks ago, we were all at my apartment after a night out. I\u2019d gone to bed early, exhausted, and left Rachel and Tom in the living room watching a movie. A few minutes later, Tom came into the bedroom looking shaken and told me that Rachel had leaned in and tried to kiss him. He said he pulled away immediately and that Rachel apologized, blaming it on the alcohol.<\/p>\n

Judy, I can\u2019t shake the feeling of betrayal. If what Tom says is true, then the friend I trusted most in the world made a move on my fianc\u00e9. But if I confront Rachel and it wasn\u2019t as serious as it sounds, I could lose her forever. Part of me wants to give her the benefit of the doubt, but another part wonders if I should cut her out of my life completely to protect my relationship with Tom. I keep replaying the night in my head, wondering if I missed any warning signs that Rachel might have had feelings for him.<\/p>\n

Since then, Rachel has been acting strangely around me\u2014short answers, nervous laughter, barely meeting my eyes. She hasn\u2019t brought up the night at all, and neither has Tom. Now, every time I try to bring myself to ask her about it, I freeze, worried about what her answer might be. I\u2019m scared that if she admits it was intentional, I\u2019ll never be able to forgive her, but if she denies it, I might still wonder if there\u2019s more going on.<\/p>\n

The wedding planning is adding another layer of stress, and I can\u2019t imagine going through with it without Rachel by my side. But I also can\u2019t ignore this nagging feeling that I\u2019m overlooking something critical. Judy, should I confront her, or do I just try to move on for the sake of my friendship and relationship?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m struggling with a situation that\u2019s tearing me up inside, and I don\u2019t know where to turn. My best friend \u201cRachel\u201d and I have been inseparable for… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14255,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14254","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14254","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14254"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14254\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14256,"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14254\/revisions\/14256"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14255"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14254"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14254"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14254"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}