{"id":14383,"date":"2024-11-21T18:00:12","date_gmt":"2024-11-21T18:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/?p=14383"},"modified":"2024-11-21T18:00:12","modified_gmt":"2024-11-21T18:00:12","slug":"helping-your-baby-to-sleep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/?p=14383","title":{"rendered":"Helping your baby to sleep"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some babies sleep much more than others. Some sleep for long periods, others in short bursts. Some soon sleep through the night, while some don&#8217;t for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>Your baby will have their own pattern of waking and sleeping, and it&#8217;s unlikely to be the same as other babies you know.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s also unlikely to fit in with your need for sleep. Try to sleep when your baby sleeps.<br \/>\n<div style=\"width: 576px;\" class=\"wp-video\"><video class=\"wp-video-shortcode\" id=\"video-14383-1\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" preload=\"metadata\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"video\/mp4\" src=\"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/v12044gd0000cs9uahnog65mlfcfju30.mp4?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/v12044gd0000cs9uahnog65mlfcfju30.mp4\">https:\/\/ourtimenew.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/v12044gd0000cs9uahnog65mlfcfju30.mp4<\/a><\/video><\/div><br \/>\nIf you&#8217;re breastfeeding, in the early weeks your baby is likely to doze off for short periods during a feed. Carry on feeding until you think your baby has finished or until they&#8217;re fully asleep. This is a good opportunity to try to get a bit of rest yourself.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re not sleeping at the same time as your baby, don&#8217;t worry about keeping the house silent while they sleep. It&#8217;s good to get your baby used to sleeping through a certain amount of noise.<\/p>\n<p>How can I get my baby used to night and day?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a good idea to teach your baby that night-time is different from daytime from the start. During the day, open curtains, play games and don&#8217;t worry too much about everyday noises when they sleep.<\/p>\n<p>At night, you might find it helpful to:<\/p>\n<p>keep the lights down low<br \/>\nnot talk much and keep your voice quiet<br \/>\nput your baby down as soon as they&#8217;ve been fed and changed<br \/>\nnot change your baby unless they need it<br \/>\nnot play with your baby<br \/>\nYour baby will gradually learn that night-time is for sleeping.<\/p>\n<p>Where should my baby sleep?<\/p>\n<p>For the first 6 months your baby should be in the same room as you when they&#8217;re asleep, both day and night. This can reduce the risk of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome).<\/p>\n<p>Particularly in the early weeks, you may find your baby only falls asleep in your or your partner&#8217;s arms, or when you&#8217;re standing by the cot.<\/p>\n<p>You can start getting your baby used to going to sleep without you comforting them by putting them down before they fall asleep or when they&#8217;ve just finished a feed. It may be easier to do this once your baby starts to stay alert more frequently or for longer.<\/p>\n<p>If you use a baby sling to carry your baby, make sure you use it safely. The Lullaby Trust has information about swaddling your baby and using slings safely.<\/p>\n<p>Establishing a baby bedtime routine<\/p>\n<p>You may feel ready to introduce a bedtime routine when your baby is around 3 months old. Getting them into a simple, soothing bedtime routine can be a great opportunity to have 1-to-1 time with your baby.<\/p>\n<p>The routine could consist of:<\/p>\n<p>having a bath<br \/>\nchanging into night clothes and a fresh nappy<br \/>\nputting them to bed<br \/>\nreading a bedtime story (see more in Baby and toddler play ideas)<br \/>\ndimming the lights in the room to create a calm atmosphere<br \/>\ngiving a goodnight kiss and cuddle<br \/>\nsinging a lullaby or having a wind-up musical mobile you can turn on when you&#8217;ve put your baby to bed<br \/>\nbrushing their teeth (if they have any)<br \/>\nAs your child gets older, it can be helpful to keep to a similar bedtime routine. Too much excitement and stimulation just before bedtime can wake your child up again. Spend some time winding down and doing some calmer activities, like reading. <\/p>\n<p>How much sleep does your baby need?<\/p>\n<p>Just as with adults, babies&#8217; and children&#8217;s sleep patterns vary. From birth, some babies need more or less sleep than others. The list below shows the average amount of sleep babies and children need during a 24-hour period, including daytime naps.<\/p>\n<p>Newborn sleep needs<\/p>\n<p>Most newborn babies are asleep more than they are awake. Their total daily sleep varies, but can be from 8 hours up to 16 or 18 hours. Babies will wake during the night because they need to be fed. Being too hot or too cold can also disturb their sleep.<\/p>\n<p>Sleep requirements at 3 to 6 months old<\/p>\n<p>As your baby grows, they&#8217;ll need fewer night feeds and will be able to sleep for longer. Some babies will sleep for 8 hours or longer at night, but not all. By 4 months, they may be spending around twice as long sleeping at night as they do during the day.<\/p>\n<p>Baby sleep at 6 to 12 months<\/p>\n<p>For babies aged 6 months to a year, night feeds may no longer be necessary and some babies will sleep for up to 12 hours at night. Teething discomfort or hunger may wake some babies during the night.<\/p>\n<p>Sleep requirements from 12 months<\/p>\n<p>Babies will sleep for around 12 to 15 hours in total after their first birthday.<\/p>\n<p>2-year-old sleep needs<\/p>\n<p>Most 2 year olds will sleep for 11 to 12 hours at night, with 1 or 2 naps in the daytime.<\/p>\n<p>Sleep requirements for 3 to 4 year olds<\/p>\n<p>Most children aged 3 or 4 will need about 12 hours sleep, but this can range from 8 hours up to 14. Some young children will still need a nap during the day.<\/p>\n<p>Coping with disturbed nights<\/p>\n<p>Newborn babies invariably wake up repeatedly in the night for the first few months, and disturbed nights can be very hard to cope with.<\/p>\n<p>If you have a partner, ask them to help. If you&#8217;re formula feeding, encourage your partner to share the feeds. If you&#8217;re breastfeeding, ask your partner to take over the early morning changing and dressing so you can go back to sleep.<\/p>\n<p>Once you&#8217;re into a good breastfeeding routine, your partner could occasionally give a bottle of expressed breast milk during the night. If you&#8217;re on your own, you could ask a friend or relative to stay for a few days so you can get some sleep.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some babies sleep much more than others. Some sleep for long periods, others in short bursts. 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